April 11th, 2012 
cagreinvented 
Happy Hump Day Folks!
Hope everyone has had a great week so far! My week has been going well for the most part other than being under the weather a bit. However, I did have a few sad moments yesterday and today when I saw all my friends posting pics of themselves and siblings on Facebook and Twitter.
Find out why when you read the rest…
A lot of people are surprised to find out I have biological siblings; one older sister and a younger sister I’ve never met before. It makes me sort of sad that I no longer have a relationship with my older sister (and she will probably use this post as more ammunition of why she shouldn’t talk to me). Short Story Version: Last year I found out that I have a sister that I never knew about before. In the midst of me calling my older sister to tell her “Papa was a Rolling Stone” I found out she knew and didn’t tell me.
I was pissed and said some really horrible things because I was extremely hurt. While that is no excuse and I apologized as well as attempted to call, e-mail and text her, she’s hasn’t forgiven me for whatever reason. In addition she avoids me like a plague and hasn’t shown up to any family functions in the last year including Thanksgiving OR Christmas and it bothers me because it makes my mom really sad. I think it’s really crazy that we haven’t spoken in almost a year and on days like National Sibling Day it affects me more than I would like it to impact me. However, I am blessed and thankful for all my non-biological sisters and brothers. YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME AND TOTALLY ROCK!
Even though I have done all I can to this point, short of physically kissing my sister’s a$$, I do hope we can be at least cordial to one another at some point in life for my mother’s sake. In addition, I REALLY hope to meet my little sister one day because it pains me to think of all the fabulous fashion advice and beauty tips she’s NOT getting by not having me in her life! She’s a teenager now and this is a very pivotal time in a girl’s life! Hopefully by next year’s National Sibling Day I will have a much different story to tell.
In the meantime, enjoy my fancy picture collage of my other hot sissies and bros that are near and dear to my heart! (If you are not pictured here, it doesn’t mean you don’t fall into that category! I just may not have a picture of you and me or a pic that I actually like! 
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Where’s the pic when I CRUSHED your step class challenge? HAHAHAHA!
Seriously, as you know of my current family situation, it’s going on a year and a half since we talked and almost two since we saw each other. The one person you should always be able to depend on or to resolve difference with is your sibling. Unlike parents, there’s no generational gaps or thoughts of “they know best”. It’s just a trust and bond that’s built. All I can say is that if you feel that you’ve truly done all you can to reconcile, the onus is on them and there’s nothing more that you can do.
Re: pic when I CRUSHED your step class challenge
#1 You didn’t crush me
#2 Did you not read the end of the post where I said unflattering pics would not be posted!! Lol
I was trying to find the pic from the wedding but I couldn’t find it! If you have it send it to me!
Re: Advice
Thanks for the encouraging words. Yes I know you understand where I’m coming from. But it still sucks ya know? I’ll probably reach out to pops this summer to see how I can find my little sister. I believe she lives here in the states so that would be cool if I could meet her.
“Baby don’t worry you know that you got me…” There’s a more detailed response in your inbox. Love you forever, ever.
<3 u